Countdown to Freedom...The Waiting Game
I'm not going to call...
I'm just going to wait for him to do it.
I'm sure he likes me now. I have my reasons for knowing this.
I saw him last night. I'm aware of these calling rules: a two day wait. It doesn't mean I have to like it.
I hate waiting.
posted by L. @ 9:23 PM
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2 Comments:
This one guy said in Cosmo that guys don't really like "the rules" and they'd much prefer it if the girl made the call. It takes the pressure off the guys because they don't really understand "the rules" as much as girls and they don't want to screw anything up. And I'm thinking, SO many more girls would like to hear this information. Girls always want to call, but for some reason we always think guys think like us, and would judge us if we called to soon.
Call the dude.
-Beth
From previous experiences, i.e. my last boyfriend, I'm still in the "Take some time to show me that you're interested" mode. Because I constantly felt I was the one moving the relatonship along, I now want to make sure that there is some forward momentum coming from the other side.
And in all honesty, if it can't come from the other side in the beginning of a relationship, then I really don't expect it to come at the end because you have set up a precedent. I'm not going to set the precedent that it OK for me to be the one who calls.
I want a guy who likes me enough to take the initiative, especially with school just around the corner.
Also, because the only times we've hung out have been induced by other situations, I would like it if he would be the one to set up the first alone one.
If something comes up to do, then I'll call. I'm not going to be that hard about the rule.
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